Wash & wear is acrylic, hence not as hard as an enamel.
I have a similar situation with stained trim and exposed beams in my place. After much trial and error (trying various paints, sequences, etc), here's my current procedure:
1) Give it a coat of straight Penetrol. This stuff penetrates deeply and dries by going hard, not by solvent evaporation. Give it at least a week to go decently hard deep down.
2) Generous coat of slow-drying oil-based primer, such as Taubman's Prep Right, with a little Penetrol added (but not too much). Apply with a small roller and lightly lay off with a foam brush. Don't be too fussy at this stage.
3) Leave it for an extended drying time of 2-3 days. Then decide where filling is necessary -- it's easier to see this after a coat of primer. Fill holes (but not cracks/joins) as necessary with Zinsser Ready Patch. Sand it the next day, wipe clean with a damp cloth, and spot prime.
4) Repeat step (2), possibly twice with at least 2-3 days between coats. Leave it for a week, and then sand with 180g to get a smooth surface. You might have to drop back to 120g in places. Wipe thoroughly clean with a damp cloth.
5) If any bare timber has been re-exposed in step 4, re-prime, sand, etc.
6) Fill any cracks between timber pieces with a flexible product, such as caulk-in-colours, or no more gaps, and smooth quickly with a damp finger. Don't do this if you've still got more oil-based undercoats to do. (An alternative is to use Sikaflex at an earlier stage, which is turps cleanup.) When the caulking is well dried (at least a day for water-based caulks -- 2-3 days is better), give them an acrylic undercoat.
7) At least a week after the last coat of oil-based primer/undercoat, apply 3 coats of Taubmans Endure semi-gloss (or a different gloss level if that's your preference -- personally I think semi-gloss looks better and doesn't show the imperfections quite so much). It might need a very light sanding with 240g or 300g between coats. After the 1st topcoat, re-assess carefully whether any bits need topup filler -- the higher gloss level can make this more obvious than previously. Sand, re-fill, re-undercoat, as necessary before finishing the topcoats.
You'd have to ring the technical help line for the manufacturers in question. Some oil based paints are ok over some acrylics. But note that Aquanamel is water based. I've used Aquanamel in one room, and it's ok, I guess. But I use Taubman's Endure exclusively now.What prep do I need to do to paint enamel (oil based) over the top of the acrylic (water based) paint?