Hi Thirsty,
I would suggest getting a colour consultant to come around and give you some advice. Dulux have them (Dulux Colour Consultants). I used them for working out the colours for my house and they were worth every cent I spent on them. (I think about $180/hr). They will pick out just the right colour, much better than what I could do. I think it probably even saved me $500 in marriage counselling.