G'day Madrat
We've all mad mistakes in renovations, the kinda things you just want to unwind but don't want to face it .... but this ain't it.
By the look of the photos, I don't think you have a problem. By all means add a complementary grey pots, doors, whatever, but I think in principle it looks quite fine.
So I think the problem is in your head or that of SWMBO ...which of course means it is a substantial problem!![]()